• Traveling Through Books: Inspiring Journeys and Stories
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    Daily writing prompt
    What’s a movie or book that inspired you to travel?

    Those who follow this blog closely know we love traveling. When there comes a gap of 2-3 months without a trip, I feel uneasy. The feeling is hard to describe, but I just want to go somewhere in case of a gap like this. Colorado is our favorite neighboring state, so when we want to go somewhere without anything specific in mind, we head there. So far, we have covered 3 of Colorado’s 4 national parks and multiple towns, including Colorado Springs, Montrose, Denver, Glenwood Springs, Telluride, Ouray, Estes Park, Grand Lake, and many more.

    My most recent trip was to India; I actually came back to the USA yesterday, but it was for a personal emergency. Just 2 weeks before that, I did a boys’ trip to Ouray. Before that, we did a family trip to Utah and covered 3 national parks. Now that September is approaching and the next long weekend is coming up, we will be planning something for sure.

    Coming back to today’s question, my travel journey is not inspired by any particular movie or book. I started traveling very early on, when I was working back in India. My friends and I used to go trekking in Maharashtra, and then we slowly started visiting other tourist places in India. I love reading and read all kinds of books. A particular book that excited me and increased my hunger to travel is West with Giraffes by Lynda Rutledge. I read this book in 2021; check this post. It’s a beautiful story about two Giraffes being transported from New York to the San Diego Zoo, becoming the first giraffes of the famous zoo. The story that unfolds and the road trip is like a dream for any traveler. I should read it again.

    Another Book/Movie mention would be Bones & All by Camille DeAngelis. I didn’t get a chance to watch the movie yet, but I loved reading the book. Firstly, the plot is very interesting, as it’s about the romance between two cannibals who are trying to accept their reality and find comfort in each other after learning about each other. Then there is this road journey they do together to run away from their past and find the peace they need. It’s a great read.

    Happy Reading! Keep Traveling!!!

  • Clever Excuses Kids Make: A Fun Insight
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    What is the best excuse you have heard lately?

    The best excuse I heard lately is from my 4-year-old kid. That little fellow is full of excuses, and most of them make sense, at least from his point of view.

    Right now, he is with me at my parents’ home. He is bonding well with them. My dad is not so well, so he is mostly interacting with my mom and her daadi (grandmother). Every night, he insists on sleeping with me, but I am mostly on my Kindle before sleep. Sometimes I tell him stories from my childhood books, and he loves them.

    Now my mom, a better storyteller, is around, and he realizes that too. Every night he goes to bed with me, then goes to his daadi, saying, “I want to sleep with daadi.” He listens to at least 5 stories from her(he remembers them well and tells her exactly which story to tell). Once all stories are finished, he asks to go back to me for sleep.

    When my mom asks why you are going to your dad? You promised to sleep with me. He gives excuses –

    1) I am getting a smell from you (he says this to me too when he goes to my mom)

    2) But I have to sleep with Dad too. I want to sleep with both of you, so now it’s Dad’s turn.

    We both smile at his cleverness. Kids are like that; they can get anything they want just by being true and honest. I learn a lot from him.

    Happy Reading! Keep Traveling!!!

  • Are We Products of Our Environment or Experiences?
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    Do you think we’re shaped more by our experiences or by who we are?

    It’s a great question, I heard it somewhere. We don’t have anything of our own; whatever we do, become, or decide, society plays a great role in shaping it. It is even said we don’t have any life decisions of our own.

    When we are born, we are a clean slate. Then our parents, teachers, neighbors, friends, and our surroundings fill it with ideas and goals. If you follow the pattern, there is a craze to go to foreign countries in South India, and then Punjabis have an affinity for Canada and the UK. Bihar has the largest number of IAS officers every year.

    Take my example: my elder sister is in IT. She received a handsome package upon completing her Master’s, and her salary was higher than my father’s, which showed my family a golden path to success. I just followed their instructions, completed my master’s, and am now a successful IT engineer. In my success, I have no role other than the actual effort. My sister’s success influenced all the decisions.

    In Philosophy, it is called determinism. A man can never decide on his own. So our lives are shaped by our surroundings, and we have nothing of our own. After we can make decisions of our own, we are influenced by our own experiences. Sometimes, when our dear ones don’t listen to our genuine advice, we say they will learn from their own experiences.

    Now, whether they will learn or not, that varies from person to person. Apart from external influences, learning from personal experiences is the best way to improve one’s life. Negative experiences affect us deeply, and no one wants to experience them knowingly, but they are the most important for our growth.

    Positive experiences, on the other hand, bring happiness and a drive to move forward and achieve whatever we desire. They can also be deceiving and hamper growth by introducing ego, fear of losing, and isolation. One must be very careful not to fall into the trap.

    So, in short, we are completely shaped by our experiences, and we are nothing but reflections of our society.

    Happy Reading! Keep Traveling!!!

  • Why I’d Choose to Be a Crocodile for a Week: Power, Patience, Vision
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    If you had to be an animal for a week, which one would you be and why?

    After thinking it over, I could only imagine being a crocodile. There’s no deep reasoning behind it—I simply like crocodiles.

    Crocodiles are one of the most powerful creatures of the animal kingdom, and I have great admiration for them. They have so many qualities needed to be an apex predator.

    Firstly, they do not need to feed frequently; once they get a big meal, they can go without hunting for many months to a year. Isn’t it amazing? On the bright side, I could spend that time meditating or planning new hunting strategies. 😊

    I love their hunting techniques and their powerful jaws, which are the strongest among all living animals. Who wouldn’t want that? Their ability to catch prey and then twist and roll their body to break bones is equally impressive. Now, this one is a little cruel, but it’s still a power and that should be respected.

    Another amazing quality of them is that they move through the water without creating disturbance. This gives them a great advantage over their prey. The prey doesn’t realize the crocodile’s presence until it comes very close. And a crocodile waits patiently in the water for the right moment, keeping low and still. It’s like doing a yogic pose with perfect balance with the surroundings, becoming one with nature. 😍

    The last quality I really admire is its vision. They can scan their surroundings up to 270 degrees submerged without turning their heads, as their eyes are on top of their heads. Their eyelids are like swim goggles, giving them underwater visibility, and don’t forget their slit pupils and excellent night vision. And here I am, wearing glasses since ninth grade. I would love to have that 😄

    So this one was the selected animal for a week. How about yours?

    Happy Reading! Keep Traveling!!!

  • The Dangers of Overusing Technology: A Glimpse into the Future
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    What’s a piece of technology you’re convinced will exist in 20 years?

    First of all, I am not a fan of the overuse of technology. Using technology in moderation is okay to make our lives more comfortable. But using too much makes us slaves to technology. The high rise in health issues is the result of this overuse.

    In the earlier days of our parents and especially grandparents, there was less technology and more human work. People were healthy and living life till 100 easily. Now, with all medical advancements and all kinds of knowledge, diets, and facilities available, the average life span has reduced to 70 in India and 80 in the USA.

    Yes, we have personalized diet plans available, the best machines in Gyms, great fitness clubs, and various effective ways to improve health: Yoga, Pilates, HIIT, Calisthenics, Tai Chi, Zumba, and so on. But when we are glued to our smartphones for most of the day watching reels, we have Alexa and Google assistants to do the basic work for us, like turning on the light or turning off the fan. We want driverless cars so that we can sit in the car, probably watching reels, rather than improving our hand-eye coordination.

    But the problem is not with the technology itself but with the consumers, who are us. And there is no turning back. It will even get worse with time. To remain sane, we should do whatever we can ourselves and use technology as little as possible. Now, with the proliferation of online food delivery services, grocery delivery services, and e-commerce, we are just 1 click away from getting what we want without moving a muscle. Isn’t it scary?

    That said, I am convinced that flying cars will exist in 20 years. I always believe that what we can think, we can create. Whatever it is, that’s the power of the human mind. I pray that we don’t destroy ourselves.

    Happy Reading! Keep Traveling!!!